Set Goals Smartly: So let's start. Question number 1: How to set life goals? There are exactly two steps to set the appropriate goals in life. The first step is to clear 'why'. To do any work, we have to take some action, and emotions are very important to take action. Emotion means: 'Energy in Motion. And emotion comes from purpose. And until the purpose of doing some work is not clear, emotion will never come.
How Do I Set Goals Smartly?
Like, think four wrestlers are standing in front of you and you have to fight with them without any reason. So would you like to fight them unnecessarily? Or run away from there? Now think if those wrestlers don’t want to beat you but they want to beat your mother standing behind you, then what will you do? Will you run away from there or fight with them? Then a scream will come out from your inside "Do or Die". Because then you will have a very big reason to fight. So to create emotion, first of all, you have to clear that why. After that comes the second step, always keep in mind you should never set a goal to achieve some material thing, but to achieve some purpose.
For example, if your goal is to buy a BMW car, then the goal should be to make a lot of progress in your work. So that you can become so capable that you can buy 100 BMWsrather than just one like that.
Question number 2: how to activate superman mode? You have set the goal correctly. Now to achieve that goal, you have to activate your superman mode, which means you have to do something extra-ordinary.
Only then that big goal can be achieved. Now, How to do it? For this, you have to find out whether the work you are doing or thinking of doing is your love or attraction. Now, How do know this? See, to find love, first, you will have to try attractions. If you have some self-interest to do the work; Meaning that while doing the work you are just thinking of yourself, you don’t care about others, and you can also leave that work as soon as you get the chance to leave: then that work is an attraction.
But while trying out those attractions, one day, if for any one of them, a strange wish comes out from your inside, that let me give all my happiness to it and let me get all of its pain, then understand that it is not your attraction, it is your love. And then when you will do that work, your love will come out. And that love will reach the hearts of the people, only then you will become a superman. But remember, if any day that self-interest or greed comes back inside you, on that very day all your superpowers will also end.
Question number 3: how to boost your self-esteem? For this, first, you have to know what is self-esteem. Self-esteem is what you think of yourself, not what the world thinks of you.
Now there are only two steps to boost it. The first step is: to tell the truth to yourself and accept your mistakes. And the second step is: to keep your moral values right. Now, there can be three situations: One, when you are doing absolutely illegal work then your self-esteem will always be below. Second: you are doing some work legally right but ethically wrong, meaning you are doing something against your moral values. This will always keep your self-esteem at medium. And third: you are doing the work which is both legally and ethically right. We all know from the inside which work is right and which is wrong. So if you always do things that are both legally and ethically right, then your self-esteem will always be high.
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